Last week I tried a new nail salon for a 'fill' and a pedicure. The lovely woman who did my nails was friendly and we easily chatted about our similar interests. Upon discovering I was a military wife she quickly said, "Take me shopping, I need some makeup!" I was a bit taken back by her forward comment when she reiterated, "Seriously, take me shopping! I had another customer who took me to the NEX but she moved. I've been looking for another navy wife to take me shopping so I could save some money!"

I smiled and said, "oh, I can't do that" when she quickly said, "Everyone does it! What, are you afraid?"

Have you experienced this? I've certainly had family members ask me to pick something up for them but never asked me to 'take them shopping.' I was shocked that a complete stranger would ask me to do that. How about you? What would you have said? And, do you think 'everyone' does it?

What is your opinion?

Valentine's Day is upon us and I have been thinking about my wonderful husband. Many of my family and friends were surprised that I married a member of the armed forces during a time of war (yes, I married him following 9/11). Many are confused about my choice...

I fell in love with a 'man', an incredible man of character and integrity. A quiet man of principle. He is a man who puts in long, hard hours in conditions I could never handle. A man who puts his family, friends and me before his own needs and desires. He is a man who weeps as the flag passes by at a Memorial Day parade. That man, my husband, happens to be amember of our nation's armed forces. His career, like that of anyone, is a part of who he is.

Why did I marry him? Because I am so in love with him? Yes! Because I believe in him, respect him and admire him? Yes, yes, YES!

I chose this life because it is such a privilege to stand behind this man who sacrifices not just for his wife and family but for his neighbor and nation - whether they know it or not. It is a privilege to support him, to be his number one cheerleader, to be his Morale Officer. It is a privilege.

His small part in this military may not 'win' the war. But his small part contributes to mission success and I have the privilege of living to support him.

This Valentine's Day, whether together or apart, I will celebrate the love this man has for me and renew my love and support for him...because it is a privilege.

Your turn? Why did you marry your service member, do you have a valentine's day message for them? Post it here...