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February 23, 2006
Is "My Space" in your place?
Every once in a while, something comes along that tempts kids into acting inappropriately, and their parents haven't a clue as to what it's about.
myspace.com is just one of these things. Many parents, if they know their kids use it, think the kids are just using it to post pictures, share information and chat with friends. Much of this is true, and probably a majority of myspace.com users use it this innocently.
At the same time, myspace has become a place where teenagers reveal a LOT about themselves:
Age
Location
Sexual Preferences
Pictures of themselves in risque' poses and clothes
And while yes, friends can visit each other's myspace pages, so can anybody else. Which is where the problem is. See, child molesters and serial rapists, also, unfortunately have access to the Internet - Just yesterday there was a sting netting quite a few of them, all having found their prospective victims on myspace - from the Los Angeles Times:
"The men are accused of contacting adults posing as 12- or 13-year-olds through popular websites such as MySpace.com. Members of a citizens group called perverted-justice.com, which has worked with law officers nationwide to catch would-be child molesters, chatted with the men and alerted Laguna Beach police, authorities said, whenever a man suggested a sexual rendezvous."
Folks - log into myspace.com and see what kids are posting. I have, and it is quite disturbing as a parent.
I welcome your comments.
Tim Keaney
NILB
Comments
Brian,
Thanks - and a good point. What are your kids in class telling you about Myspace?
T
Posted by: Tim Keaney at February 24, 2006 08:23 AMHey Tim,
You can't access the website from my school. They also sent a letter home notifying parents about the dangers of MySpace.com but my peers are still able to use it at home. I do know of some people that use it for the wrong reasons. I know of girls around the age of twelve that post inappropiate pictures on the website. I also have come across people that sent me a friend request that live nowhere near me and I don't seem familiar with them at all. People do abuse MySpace.com the question is what can we do about it?
Posted by: Mike at March 9, 2006 05:09 PMi am a myspace user, and i like it. it is a good thing to meet your friends on. but, some teens are using it innapropratly. the teens who are being raped and killed are asking for it. they should not be giving out all that information about themselves. i thik it is wrong, but unless you have a bad child, i dont think parents should get all hyped up about it.
Posted by: halle at April 11, 2006 06:51 PM

Tim,
myspace does have an option to keep a users profile locked except to their invited friends. This seems like a good safety tip for young people.
Posted by: brian at February 23, 2006 05:37 PM